day-26

Now I will tell you about the pros and cons of having a female boss. I have felt being under the power of a woman who feels superior to others. Or someone who just wants to save herself.

Woman support woman is bullshit.

At first I was happy because when I had a female boss, I would be more free to express my thoughts and opinions. Rather than if I had to communicate with a man, of course. But in reality, this boss is more complicated and full of drama. I don't distinguish or compare between women and men, okay. In my opinion, everyone is the same in terms of work, if they are competent. Whether man or woman, if they are good at work, you are good.

Turns out in this office I met someone like that again. Thanks God she is not my direct superior. She is the only female boss among all the men in this office. Popular? I don't think so. She is the type of person who will talk about you behind your back. Anyway, she is the bestie of my boss who likes to gossip while eating kwaci.

One day when she was in a bad mood, she would complain and act as if she hated durian. We bought durian ice cream in the room and didn't invite her. She acted as if she hated the smell of durian and wanted to puke, but we found out that she was just upset because she wasn't invited to buy durian ice cream.

One day she invited me to talk in the bathroom. We had never talked before, and I wasn't interested. She said and advised me, but her choice of words seemed threatening. I was annoyed, of course. Why did she invite me to talk about something so unimportant? Did she want to spread hatred? Since then I have felt disturbed.

After that day, she never smiled, greeted, or chatted with me again. Whatever.

I don't know how she developed herself as a boss and a woman. But clearly she doesn't look like a cool and classy woman. Doesn't look like a career woman who deserves respect. Sorry to say. I just hate her.

I can switch from being nice to number one hater in seconds just because that person messing with my life. Of course, her behavior in the bathroom bothered me. Maybe for her it was just advice and chit-chat, but at least if you speak, look me in the eye!

Woah.

Be a normal. You don't have to be a people pleaser, but at least don't bother others. Freak.